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The Edge of Self

Who Am I, Really?

The Edge of Self

One paradox of the self is in the context of dying and becoming, which explores the tension between the aspects of our identity that must be let go (dying) and those that are continually evolving and emerging (becoming). This paradox highlights the need to release outdated or limiting aspects of ourselves while embracing new growth and transformation. Understanding and reconciling these dynamics is essential for personal evolution and fulfillment.

Amid cycles of letting go and evolving, who are we, really?

Questions and Reflections

  • Question: How can I honor who I am in the present moment while also working towards the person I aspire to become?

    Reflection: Evaluate how you balance acceptance of your current self with the pursuit of your future aspirations. Reflect on the importance of self-compassion and appreciating your present state, while also setting intentional goals and taking actions that lead to your desired future self. Consider strategies to maintain a harmonious relationship between your present and future identities.

  • Question: How can I let go of the parts of myself that no longer serve me, while nurturing the growth of new, positive aspects of my identity?

    Reflection: Reflect on the habits, beliefs, and patterns that you need to release in order to grow. Consider what aspects of your identity you have outgrown and how letting go of them can create space for new development. Think about ways to actively cultivate and embrace new qualities, skills, and perspectives that align with your evolving self.

  • Question: How can I stay true to my core values and essence while allowing myself to transform and evolve over time?

    Reflection: Reflect on your core values and essence, acknowledging how they provide a foundation for your identity. Consider how these core aspects can remain consistent as you undergo personal transformation. Think about ways to embrace change and new experiences that contribute to your growth, while staying anchored in your fundamental beliefs and values.